Sexuary 2023 - Romance
The last 6 months or so have been rough for Jackie and myself. Jackie has had 3 surgeries and 1 of them has affected her sexually, the other two have helped her back and pain caused, but it's been a long road to recovery. This is life. One day while playing one night and having to stop because of her back issues, we were talking and she mentioned she things her body needs to relearn so many things. This led me to opening Seuxary 2023 with a romantic day. A back to basics approach to things.
Sometimes we get so caught up on the next great adventure that we forget that getting here is part of the fun, and oh, by the way we had a great time then too.
So this morning I had to run to the store and picked up a bouquet of flowers. Little did Jackie know that was the start. I sent a message that dinner would be at 5:30. Now mind you we're empty nesters, and unless we are going out to eat, we generally just nibble on something and not really eat a dinner. Tonight there was going to be dinner.
While Jackie occupied herself I set the table with the flowers and a candle. I brought out the real plates (normally we are paper plates only), and threw dinner in the oven. I picked her up a chicken parm, and a pesto salmon for myself. I also made salads with homemade blue cheese dressing, and stuffed mushrooms for appetizers. We ate to music in the back ground and the candle light flickering across the table.
I then gave her 30 minutes to go partake in her 420, and then come back in. We kissed a little but then I led us to the shower where I washed her hair, and kissed on her while in the shower. When we got out I brushed her hair for her until it was totally unknotted and nice and soft.
We headed to bed where I took my time kissing on her and licking all over before slowly and purposefully taking her. It was full feeling and full of contact. I could tell by her actions that the plans for tonight had hit a nerve and done the job I was hoping for.
Sexuary 2023 is off and running and while each weekday has a 'theme' of sorts, the weekends are a hodgepodge of events. This year I'm going in a totally different direction then in the past. There are new things coming up, and some totally out of my zone, but I know that Jackie will love them.
When was the last time you took the time to plan a date, or an evening with your significant other? Made sure they knew you thought them important in your life. I wrote this in a group I belong to today, and I know it's easy to overlook:
"While we love Sexuary in February, it just didn't work out
that way this year, but our relationship deserves a conscious,
purposeful month of making sure we are number one to each other and we
keep ourselves out of the ruts that life so easily slides us into."
Hope if you're a regular reader of our blog you follow along this month, comment if you'd like and most importantly, do something outside of your norm to make sure your partner knows they are still number 1 for you!
Dane
As you all know Sexuary in February just couldn’t happen due
to other things in life. So, we talked about what we should do…So now here we
are May 1st.
I have told Dane, in years past that it causes me too much
anxiety to know what’s going on the calendar for the month. So, while we talked about ideas, I left the
planning to him. So, leading up to the
month, I have seen several packages come in that were not in Dane’s normal shopping
habits. I have seen paint, brushes, canvas,
and other “artsy crafty” type things. So
that is what I have known thus far. I
had some things that he asked me to do before the month started. My mind has been thinking for over a week on
what was going to happen. I told Dane
that I felt like it was waiting for Christmas morning. I just can’t wait to see what he has planned
for us.
That leads us to day one.
I am told supper is at 5:30. While I went and took a nice hot bubble
bath, had a glass of wine, and read part of a great book. He cooked a fancy meal. I say fancy since we don’t normally use real plates,
bowls and such. (We compost all our paper
plates and goods) Next came a shower, a nice washing of hair and then he combed
it out. I cannot tell you the last time he did that. Dane really pulled out the stops for the night
and it took me to the place I needed. He
touched, licked, scratched all the right places. I was feeling so nice.
It’s been a long time;
our date nights have begun to include others and we need to get back to us. This was the perfect start to Our Sexuary….
Jackie
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